by SwastiGenztherapist on Oct 12, 2022
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I have been constantly comparing myself to my cousins who are quite slimmer than me and I am a little chubbier than me. I don’t want to do this because I know God has made me just the way he wants. Perfect. But what If i can’t stop comparing myself to others??
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Hi I am a Psychologist here to help! Thank you for reaching out I can understand that these thoughts would come up, it's natural. When such thoughts strike you, tell yourself that every individual is different. Not everyone has the same qualities. Start loving yourself, just the way you are! Strive to improve yourself so that you can achieve the goals that you have set Do join my live sessions and we can talk more about this and figure out solutions to the challenges that you are facing. I'll be glad to help you :)
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