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Hi, this is Neha. There isn't any kind of intimacy in my relationship. I'm suffocating inside. What are some strategies for addressing a sexless marriage and reigniting intimacy? @Zanzanil

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answered 274 days ago

do you know the reasons for the lack of intimacy? even if it's just a vague thought, it's a start. you begin exploring the thought. even though there will be numerous articles suggesting the most common reasons. trust me, your reasons ans solutions are as unique as you finger print.

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