How can I manage the hints of jealousy i feel towards my bestie succeeding more than me in life. I don’t want to have these feelings towards her. I don’t want to become this bad person who hates seeing others succeed

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marwa mohammed asked 503 days ago

How can I manage the hints of jealousy i feel towards my bestie succeeding more than me in life. I don’t want to have these feelings towards her. I don’t want to become this bad person who hates seeing others succeed

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Hi I am a Psychologist here to help! Thank you for reaching out. Jealousy is a very common emotion. During such times, make sure that you tell yourself that not everyone is same. Just because someone succeeded in a month, that doesn't necessarily mean that you will also get the same results in the same time. Give yourself that time and space. Work hard towards achieving your goals. Most importantly, appreciate the small victories that you achieve You can join my live sessions and we can talk about this more :)

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