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Sometimes it's a bit elusive – any advice for women who struggle with reaching orgasm? Are there common reasons or techniques that might help? @DrNikita_DSexologist
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Hi! Orgasms do seem to be elusive right😅 Well let me tell you, you are not alone. Studies show that 80% women do not get orgasms by penetrative sex alone! Which means that clitoral stimulation is essential (alone or with penetration) for getting orgasms. These are some tips you can explore: 1) Get to know your lady bits and explore your vulva-Clitoris, outer lips, G spot (the area where the clitoris bulb stays in contact with vaginal walls).Be kind and loving to yourself, don't judge your vulva's color/shape/size based on what you may have seen in pornography. This will go a long way in inculcating body positivity and confidence. 2)Explore pleasure zones outside your vulva. Back of knee, nape of neck, inner thighs, tummy, lower back are some to start with. 3)Explore sex toys especially clitoral suction toys (trust me, they are magic ✨) You can start by checking out www.sassiest.in
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4) Have an open honest communication with your partner & understand each other's preferences, fantasies, kinks and address any myths,insecurities you may have. Self pleasure is a great way to understand what works for you & also would help better communication regarding preferences with your partner. Lastly, have fun! Remember orgasms are not the end goal. As long as you are overall satisfied with your sex life (solo or partnered)It's okay if you don't have orgasm everytime. Having said that, if you have never experienced orgasms or have had too much difficulty reaching one for a prolonged time (6-8 months at a stretch)despite trying everything and its hampering your mental health, routine life and relationships, you could be having a female sexual dysfunction called as anorgasmia. Talk to your trusted sexologist/sex therapist. If you don't know where to find one, you can schedule your online consultation with non-judgemental and sex positive doctors at www.sassiest.in💜
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You can try clitoral stimulation as a means for you to achieve an orgasm!!
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Just make your man do the things to you that you like the most! 😉😘
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