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Hey everyone, looking for some advice from the seasoned pros in long-term relationships. If you've been sailing smoothly in the commitment sea, I'm curious – how do you maintain that special spark in the bedroom? Personal Story: Here's a glimpse into my world: My partner (let's call them Abhi) and I hit a phase where the passion seemed to dwindle a bit. No shame, it got us a tad concerned. Taking a cue from some insightful internet, we decided to shake things up. Turned our bedroom into a game zone, crafted a cheeky bucket list, and let me tell you, it did wonders! Now, I'm turning to you for some wisdom. What's your go-to method for keeping the flame burning?

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answered 248 days ago

Teasing is something that really worked out for us. Make them wait for you sometimes and see how wild they go on you.

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In bedroom you can try some sexy outfits for seducing each other and also try making some situations before doing it. This will eventually stretch the duration of your foreplay 👍💖

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how

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Communication is the best way to keep the relationship strong.

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Yes same, start communicating with him honestly

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hello, i am a virgin and as usual i am also afraid for my first time, i dont have any partner right now but one of my friend is ready for physical intimitation, should i go for it, i want it and i dont also because i am confused and somewhere i feel that i should do it with my love only which i dont have right now, what should i do and what things need to be worried about for my first time and what is the good age to do it, can anyone suggest.
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Is oral sex possible during periods?? My boyfriend wants to try it out
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Just use oral dams for protection because the risk of developing infections is very high during menstruation 🩸
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I'm (happily!) sexually active with my boyfriend, and let's just say oral sex is a pretty regular part of our routine. Recently, I came across something about dental dams and... honestly, I wasn't sure if they were just for specific situations or if it's something we should be using every single time. I know they can help prevent the spread of STIs, which is obviously important. But is it overkill to use one every time? Do they, like, decrease the pleasure for him? Please help thanks
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I understand your concern but protection is also important.
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hi I m 39 years old.. n newly married.. doesn't feel peaceful from inside... feel like what I m doing it.. is this type of feeling will always be there ..
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So yesterday i had an argument with my bf. we have been together for about 3 years now. we both really love and support each other. My bf wants us to engage in sexual activity. However i tend to ignore this question and avoid doing it. Its not because i dont trust him, but due to my past relationship wherein i didnt have a good experience. Is it normal to regret past consensual sexual experiences? How do I tell my bf about it ?
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ok thanks so much
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Is sex painful?? I want to try it out but I am scared as many women say that they feel immense pain during the first time.
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