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Cramps are the worst this month, and don't even get me started on the dryness! Dating has been a disaster, and intimacy feels more like a chore than anything. I keep seeing these ads about female sexologists, but is that even a real thing? Maybe I should check it out. Feeling this lost and frustrated can't be normal, right? @Sexologist_DrKalps

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Intimacy Issuesanswered 197 days ago

Yes, it's normal. With changing phase of cycle our mood changes. So Just before/after periods you can feel low about everything including desire. But if you allow negativity to take over you, it can disturb your months also. So lets accept that it's ok to feel low on some days. Don't pressurise yourself for it. But continuously if you feel low on desires for few months, then definitely you have to seek medical help. Sexologist will take your proper history and will find reason for it. Will do counseling to take your sexlife on track. According to your complaints he/she can give you some medicines. Right now you can start working on it from yourself. Start prioritising you, take some me time and find what you want- for your body and for your emotional needs. Start doing exploration to know How pleasure points work for u. Get it done from your partner. Try other forms of intimacy like oral sex, mutual masturbation. & one more thing, Female Sexologist actually exist and I'm one of them.

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Hey! Hope you are doing well 🩵 I can completely understand what you are going through. Changes in hormones and lifestyle are common in daily life and can bring about a lot of changes in intimacy and sex life. Don’t worry though! As a therapist, my suggestion would be to not put so much pressure on it. Try to eat right, sleep on time and drink lots of water. Take on some time during the day for yourself to explore your pleasure areas too! Helps a lot trust me 🌼 However, if the situation persists, do see a sexologist/ gynaecologist at the earliest and make sure you follow their guidance. Take care 🩵

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