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Should I break up with my boyfriend? My boyfriend never makes time to hang out with me and is always busy. We never go out on dates & when we hang out, it's always at his place or mine & we just watch shows, sex, and sleep. He also never texts me. I really feel mental disturbed, depressed and don't know what to do know. What should I do know? Is it normal?

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answered 280 days ago

First communicate with him your needs, try to get on middle ground that your needs of dates and outings and few texts also gets complete, observe if he makes effort once you have shared, if not then yes take a break for your mental health because if someone takes you for granted,staying with them will exhaust you

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answered 272 days ago

No, it's not normal. You should communicate about it and try to make breakup the last option.

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Psychologist_BhumikaSehra

answered 271 days ago

It's okay to re evaluate the relationship when It's not fulfilling for you. Try communicating first and then if you don't see changes still maybe it's time to re evaluate.

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answered 271 days ago

I dont think it is normal. And i think u should have a proper convo with him

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