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by Careertherapiet on Mar 19, 2023

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I feel nothing anymore. I'm 20 years old and I feel very empty. I can't tell if I'm actually just very lazy or just very depressed. What should I do? @Careertherapiet

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Hey there, I'm really glad you reached out, and I appreciate your openness about what you're going through. Feeling empty and not knowing whether it's laziness or depression can be tough to handle, especially at 20. Remember, emotions are like waves – they come and go, and it's okay to experience different feelings. First, let me assure you that you are not alone in feeling this way. Many people, regardless of age, go through similar emotions. It's vital to remember that what you're experiencing is valid, and there's no need to judge yourself for it.

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