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Hi, this is Megha. I have 12 years old girl. She is not able to handle her studies well. I really want to help my baby. What are some strategies for helping my child manage academic pressure and stress? @Jaspreet

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Create a time table for her. Give frequent short breaks while studying Reward her even for small achievements that she has made. Tell her marks don't really matter in the end.

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